Comments on: How to have a conversation with an ex-girlfriend in 10 simple steps http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/ Yongfook is a Web Producer and Usability Consultant based in Tokyo Tue, 7 Oct 2008 03:41:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: satoru http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-36322 satoru Fri, 22 Sep 2006 06:24:53 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-36322 <p>man.. i'll try this. thanks for a great post.</p> man.. i’ll try this. thanks for a great post.

]]> By: Waza http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-35500 Waza Thu, 22 Jun 2006 21:24:06 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-35500 <p>YOU FUCKER! can't believe you!</p> YOU FUCKER! can’t believe you!

]]> By: natis http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-8689 natis Fri, 03 Feb 2006 04:26:49 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-8689 <p>been out of touch on reading people's blogs for the last year. yours sadly fell into that group. sorry for that and for the split with Cheryl. going through a similar thing myself current.</p> <p>--natis</p> been out of touch on reading people’s blogs for the last year. yours sadly fell into that group. sorry for that and for the split with Cheryl. going through a similar thing myself current.

–natis

]]> By: Anthony http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2360 Anthony Tue, 03 Jan 2006 21:17:17 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2360 <p>I love the list, but I have to agree that completely ignoring an ex is the best way to do it. Especially if she's turned out to be slightly more than psycho.</p> <p>(short comment from a reader)</p> I love the list, but I have to agree that completely ignoring an ex is the best way to do it. Especially if she’s turned out to be slightly more than psycho.

(short comment from a reader)

]]> By: Evelyn http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2357 Evelyn Mon, 02 Jan 2006 18:21:41 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2357 <p>Come on, guys. All breakups are terrible. If we didn't laugh at them we'd never stop weeping. The pictures and music prove that YongFook has an actual heart, instead of a little wad of tar as we might be led to believe by his other postings. And a soul, too!<br /> I too have discovered that long-distance relationships suck, unless you follow three rules: 1. The relationship must already be in place before separating. No dating someone who already lives far away, or start dating just before you leave. 2. The time apart must be finite and with a definite end (and preferably under a year). For example: "I am going to Brunei for a training program in baby-eating for 6 months". 3. There must be a solid, definite plan to rekindle and then move the relationship forward, as in "When I get back from Brunei we will take things slowly and after a while consider the possibility of moving in/getting married/making love without bags over our heads/whatever the next step might be. NOTE: this is not guaranteed to work. It just ups the chances a little more. I still think you're the sexiest thing in Tokyo.</p> Come on, guys. All breakups are terrible. If we didn’t laugh at them we’d never stop weeping. The pictures and music prove that YongFook has an actual heart, instead of a little wad of tar as we might be led to believe by his other postings. And a soul, too!
I too have discovered that long-distance relationships suck, unless you follow three rules: 1. The relationship must already be in place before separating. No dating someone who already lives far away, or start dating just before you leave. 2. The time apart must be finite and with a definite end (and preferably under a year). For example: “I am going to Brunei for a training program in baby-eating for 6 months”. 3. There must be a solid, definite plan to rekindle and then move the relationship forward, as in “When I get back from Brunei we will take things slowly and after a while consider the possibility of moving in/getting married/making love without bags over our heads/whatever the next step might be. NOTE: this is not guaranteed to work. It just ups the chances a little more. I still think you’re the sexiest thing in Tokyo.

]]> By: lauren http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2356 lauren Mon, 02 Jan 2006 10:11:08 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2356 <p>nice to know that guys actually do feel emotion when they go through a breakup and that they may even (shock!) be actively trying to hide it. i will at least pretend that is true in my current situation, makes me feel better to think he is crying himself to sleep at night. seriously, i'm glad i chose today to catch up over here. and i still think YF should come to hawaii, not necessarily due to my newfound lack of boyfriend. . .</p> nice to know that guys actually do feel emotion when they go through a breakup and that they may even (shock!) be actively trying to hide it. i will at least pretend that is true in my current situation, makes me feel better to think he is crying himself to sleep at night. seriously, i’m glad i chose today to catch up over here. and i still think YF should come to hawaii, not necessarily due to my newfound lack of boyfriend. . .

]]> By: coder.keitaro http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2355 coder.keitaro Mon, 02 Jan 2006 10:04:59 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2355 <p>Happy New year.</p> <p>Please update your site with some interesting stuff from out of your demented mind. </p> <p>I spend far too long hitting F5 waiting for a new post.</p> <p>All the best</p> <p>Coder.Keitaro</p> Happy New year.

Please update your site with some interesting stuff from out of your demented mind.

I spend far too long hitting F5 waiting for a new post.

All the best

Coder.Keitaro

]]> By: nishah http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2353 nishah Sun, 01 Jan 2006 18:14:57 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2353 <p>Happy New Year!! Your site's cheered me up quite a few times this year, so thanks for that. Good Luck!</p> Happy New Year!! Your site’s cheered me up quite a few times this year, so thanks for that. Good Luck!

]]> By: o http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2352 o Sun, 01 Jan 2006 10:10:04 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2352 <p>hurrrrrrrrrry up and UPDATE!</p> hurrrrrrrrrry up and UPDATE!

]]> By: AndyH http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2351 AndyH Sun, 01 Jan 2006 03:53:38 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2351 <p>"hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha… they are sooo funny (eyebrows)…."</p> <p>That is a really erudite and interesting observation. Thank you for your input, I feel we have all been challenged and stimulated by your well-reasoned argument (sarcasm).</p> <p>Why don't you post a picture of yourself somewhere so we can make highly constructive comments like:</p> <p>"BWA-hehahahahahahahe ha... they are so goatlike (breasts)..."</p> “hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha… they are sooo funny (eyebrows)….”

That is a really erudite and interesting observation. Thank you for your input, I feel we have all been challenged and stimulated by your well-reasoned argument (sarcasm).

Why don’t you post a picture of yourself somewhere so we can make highly constructive comments like:

“BWA-hehahahahahahahe ha… they are so goatlike (breasts)…”

]]> By: aimee http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2347 aimee Sat, 31 Dec 2005 06:01:58 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2347 <p>um... i was just wondering....</p> <p>WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOUR EYEBROWS? ...sorry, was that a bad question... i mean, they look really scary and....ewww... do you pluck or wax them? just wondering, or were you born with them... hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha... they are sooo funny (eyebrows)....</p> <p>um... yer, just wondering. </p> <p>btw. haha just kidding.</p> um… i was just wondering….

WHAT’S WRONG WITH YOUR EYEBROWS? …sorry, was that a bad question… i mean, they look really scary and….ewww… do you pluck or wax them? just wondering, or were you born with them… hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha… they are sooo funny (eyebrows)….

um… yer, just wondering.

btw. haha just kidding.

]]> By: Smithers http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2343 Smithers Thu, 29 Dec 2005 18:30:44 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2343 <p>At the urging of some acting friends, I am considering doing some stand-up. Can I secure your services as a writer? Because this stuff is pure gold.</p> At the urging of some acting friends, I am considering doing some stand-up. Can I secure your services as a writer? Because this stuff is pure gold.

]]> By: cat http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2341 cat Thu, 29 Dec 2005 17:54:49 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2341 <p>any plan for the new years eve, love?</p> any plan for the new years eve, love?

]]> By: ariark http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2337 ariark Thu, 29 Dec 2005 09:09:56 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2337 <p>agreed with the long distant relationship thinggy ... very hard indeed... </p> <p>p/s damn am gonna buy the camera ur using ... went i have enough money... heh...</p> agreed with the long distant relationship thinggy … very hard indeed…

p/s damn am gonna buy the camera ur using … went i have enough money… heh…

]]> By: adam http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2334 adam Wed, 28 Dec 2005 18:51:15 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2334 <p>Happy Valentines Day!</p> Happy Valentines Day!

]]> By: emmdoubleyuu http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2329 emmdoubleyuu Wed, 28 Dec 2005 03:05:20 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2329 <p>I second the accusation that you look like Ken Hirai. And your FFIV violin short strangely reminds me of the music from that one Game Gear puzzle game.</p> I second the accusation that you look like Ken Hirai. And your FFIV violin short strangely reminds me of the music from that one Game Gear puzzle game.

]]> By: kt http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2327 kt Tue, 27 Dec 2005 20:12:11 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2327 <p>oh how difficult it would be to run a blog like this if you were a closet anoretic :P</p> oh how difficult it would be to run a blog like this if you were a closet anoretic :P

]]> By: gix http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2326 gix Tue, 27 Dec 2005 12:54:46 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2326 <p>Where the fuck is the Food Reviews, the beers and the druken slurry stories?!</p> Where the fuck is the Food Reviews, the beers and the druken slurry stories?!

]]> By: Oko_ne http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2324 Oko_ne Mon, 26 Dec 2005 20:38:19 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2324 <p>I am really stunned to find your site listed as my 3rd choice...while doing a lifestyle change search. After only a brief forums oriented encounter with you....I find this really disturbing. MSN must have something mixed up. Much peace to you! Great photos from the Halvsie meeting too!</p> <p>Angela</p> I am really stunned to find your site listed as my 3rd choice…while doing a lifestyle change search. After only a brief forums oriented encounter with you….I find this really disturbing. MSN must have something mixed up. Much peace to you! Great photos from the Halvsie meeting too!

Angela

]]> By: Amused http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2323 Amused Mon, 26 Dec 2005 20:29:25 +0000 http://archive.yongfook.com/2005/12/21/how-to-have-a-conversation-with-an-ex-girlfriend-in-10-simple-steps/#comment-2323 <p>Funny how random people play right into the hands of those who simply itch to get the whole world involved in their own private business.</p> <p>Nothing to see around here folks, move on, move on.</p> <p>Nice photos BTW :)</p> Funny how random people play right into the hands of those who simply itch to get the whole world involved in their own private business.

Nothing to see around here folks, move on, move on.

Nice photos BTW :)

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